From my site: http://www.JenAndMen.com<br><br>It is utterly impossible for me to play hard to get. The way I see it, its going to go one of two ways. Either Im not into you, so I am, in fact, hard to get (no playing involved), or I am into you, in which case I am already planning our wedding and naming our children. I physically cannot force my mouth to utter the words Sorry, Im busy. It just doesnt happen. I want to soak up every kiss and hug and hand-hold I cant before the guy inevitably changes from the lovely Dr. Jekyll to the brooding Mr. Hyde.<br><br>Some girls are very good at pretending to not care, alluding to the fact that they may be seeing other guys, or even not picking up a phone call or answering a text message. I, however, am not a part of this group of robots. I cannot hide my emotions and pretend I dont want to spend my entire day with the new guy Im dating. I was just about to say that its not like I tell him that I want to sew myself to him but then I realized that I actually said that to him three days ago (head down in shame).But honestly I just love being around him and I dont see any shame in hiding that fact. No, Im not going to answer every text message back within the minute or pick up all of his calls on the first ring, but I think its silly to ignore the guy just to make him want me. If he doesnt want then I think we have bigger problems than me not playing hard to get.I know that its a tactic that works Ive used it and seen it first-hand. Usually, girls are the masters at it. My boss told me an entire strategy that involves talking to the girl as little as possible so as to stir up some super-man idea in her imagination. Although hed never actually live up to that fantasy, by then shed be so into him that it wouldnt even matter.Guys do this to girls all the time. Its like they know we crave attention and love and affection and they specifically hold out to tease us and keep us wanting more. The concept makes sense you dont want to date someone who is constantly up your butt; but, Im sorry, some of these people take it to the extreme.Do you play hard-to-get? Does it work? Did it ever work against you?From my site: http://www.JenAndMen.com
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